Diocesan Commission on the Family
At
Minutes of Meeting
Attendance:
P r e s e n t A b s e n t
Fr. Lambert Legaspino Lita of Che Lastica
Paeng & Nancy Barcelona, VSRDC Zeny of Gerry Mallillin
Zoilo & Connie Gabriel, VSAP Fely of Manny Manahan
Al & Edna Hermoso, VSJ Allen & Duy Reyes
Che Lastica, VOLA – North
Gerry Mallinllin, VOLA – South
Manny Manahan, VSMDP
Willie & Aleth Hernandez
Rey & Mel Sangalang
I. Opening Prayer was done by Edna of Al Hermoso.
II. Minutes of the Meeting on
III. Fr, Lambert announced the couples who will be part of the Formation Department, namely:
Rey & Mel Sanglang, Head Couple
Willie & Aleth Hernandez, member
The Implementing Department is still under Fr. Lambert in the absence of the DCOF Lay Coordinator.
IV. Updates from last meeting.
A. Pre-Marriage
MPP/CEE will be the standard pre-cana adopted by DCOF. Fr. Lambert commended the program because of the inter-sacramental union of Holy Order and Matrimony that can be seen in the team of clergy and couples as facilitators. To experience the program, the strategies undertaken are:
1. Four-session-training of priests in the Vicariate of Holy Family;
2. After the training, Fr. Lambert to undertake the training of the priests and lay-couples in the other vicariates.
*Gerry M. will present to the body pre-marriage module used in VOLA next meeting.
*Formation group to look into the plan for facilitators’ training for priests and lay couples.
*Mel S. suggested that preferences of couples to be in the Tagalog/English team be considered.
B. Counseling Ministry
Satellite Centers will be set up in the different vicariates.
C. Che Lastica submitted the matrix Goal #15
D. Manual of Operations
DCOF and BEC have completed the manual of operations.
DCOF Manual should be cascaded to the parishes of the vicariate. Vicariate of Sta. Rita and San Antonio de Padua have complied as directed.
*Willie H. suggested that a covering letter from Frs. Lambert and Ador for the endorsement be sent to the different vicariates.
V. Vicariates Updates
A. OLA (Che Lastica) last meeting on
1. Aleth H. came for the Center for Women & Children.
2. Inventory of areas of services in the light of the goals (with attachment)
3. In the four parishes, COF not yet organized.
4. Regular meeting is every 2nd Wednesday at &:30 p.m.
B. Sta Rita de Casia (Paeng Barcelona) last meeting on
1. Aleth came for the center for women & children
2. Discussions on the counseling in diocese vis-à-vis counseling in the Redemptorist; NFP training for the trainors.
3. Distribution of manuals to the parishes.
4. Regular meeting is 2nd Tuesday at
C. San Martin de Pores (Manny Manahan)
1. Collaboration with Fr. Aga. In the formulation of pre-cana and post-cana programs.
2. Slowed down because of the new thrust of DCOF and redirection because of the manual of programs.
3. Regular meeting is last Saturday at
D. San Antonio de Padua (Zoilo & Connie Gabriel)
1. After the DPA, focused on the 3 priority areas as directed:
Pre-cana, counseling & NFP
2. MPP/CEE #11 March 7 at JDHP – 32 couples (29 couples marrying & 3 couples from Last Supper as observers) to date (186 + 32) = 218 couples/couples graduates.
3. In the last meeting on
Coordinator – Zoilo & Connie Gabriel
Deputy - Albert & Lorna Buenviaje
4. Distribution of the manual except for the organizational chart.
5. With common programs (as reported in the past meetings) DSRP (Daopalad),Parenting (Mother-Daughter Dialogue/Father-Son Dialogue) ME
6. Next Meeting: Planning for 2010 programs/Fr. Didoy’s talk on documentation for wedding.
7. Regular meeting is every 2nd Monday,
E.
1. Common programs: ME, Solo Encounter, LSS, monthly worship. Next Solo Encounter is April 16 – 18
2. Regular meeting is 1st Tuesday at
*Fr. Lambert to attend meeting to encourage participation and address structural and coordinating concerns.
3. Last Supper, Good Shepherd and Our Lady of Fatima parishes were given manual of
Operations.
F. Holy Family (Fr. Lambert reported)
1. Regular meeting is every 2nd Tuesday at
2. Manual of Operation was given to Holy Family & Sto. Cristo only.
3. MPP/CEE – 4 series of talk given to the vicariate priests
4. Fr. Lambert attended the worldwide ME last
The Vicariate ME is already class #6 with BLD.
VI. Other Matters
1. Gerry M. shared their ME program given to the Diocese of Novaliches. Three parishes send candidates to the weekend.
Fr. Lambert said ideally ME should be per parish and he encourages everybody to go on with existing programs as experience.
2. Manny M. shared that networking is done in their vicariate. They use the strength of a parish to help the weakness of another parish.
3. Fr. Lambert asked Willie Hernandez to scout for program(s) to address needs of families of migrant workers. Honesto Silvala of CFC is willing to do training the trainor for workers of DCOF. CFC gives seminars to OWA every Monday & Thursday.
a. Faci-training program will be on May 15 & 16 at CFC Center City Estate Bldg. at Las Pinas;
b. Vicariates to send 2 couples to attend.
c. Willie H. is also directed to have the 1st hand experience and documentation regarding migrant workers by attending the program of the Parish of the Last Supper.
VII. Next Meeting will be on
VIII. Closing Prayer – Mel of Rey Sangalang
Prepared by:
Connie Gabriel
Attested by:
Fr. Lambert Legaspino
Clergy Corrdinator
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